S03:E17 - Ben Ptashinsky-Skinner | Embracing Parenthood and Authenticity: A Conversation with (@equityBEN)

What does it mean to build a family with intention?

Friend of the Show Ben (@equityBEN) shares his journey through musical theater, adoption, and fatherhood, offering an honest look at raising a child with openness, authenticity, and love. From performing as Edna in Hairspray to creating lasting family traditions, Ben reflects on how representation, visibility, and community have shaped both his life and his parenting.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

• How musical theater helped shape his parenting style
• The timing of becoming a dad after playing Edna in Hairspray
• Growing up with the influence of The Golden Girls and Designing Women
• Adoption, legal challenges, and building relationships with biological family
• Why honesty with children creates stronger families
• Raising Charlotte with confidence, curiosity, and healthy communication
• Disney cruises, travel, and encouraging independence
• Living visibly as a queer family and the impact of Pride
• Building community through authenticity and long-term commitment
• Why intentional parenting can change hearts and minds, one family at a time

Whether you’re a parent, an intended parent, or simply interested in the many ways families are built, this conversation celebrates authenticity, resilience, and the everyday moments that make family life extraordinary.

• Instagram: @equityBEN

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